Consider the following story of misplaced priorities. While hiking in the wilderness, I met a man whose T-shirt carried the following message: "He who dies with the most toys, wins."
As I pondered those words, I was sure that the author meant the opposite of what he said. No one on his deathbed ever stated, "I wish I had spent more time at the office." We were put on this earth not to accumulate "toys," but to reap the gifts of the spirit. These gifts come to us when we dedicate our lives to something greater than ourselves - a path of service in the world, the raising of a loving family (or being an amazing single who inspires others), the creation of beauty through art, or any passion that inspires one.
Having lived in this manner, you can look back over your life with a real sense of fulfillment. By following the path of peace, love, and joy, you will discover your true treasure - one that transcends death itself.
He, who dies, having followed his heart, wins.
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Time and time again I get the same message- It's not about the money. Do what you love. I learned a long time ago a job is a means to an end. While I feel good doing a days work and getting the job done, it's not what my self-esteem hinges on. What authority I have at work doesn't carry into my personal life. I'm not the boss at home.
For some people work is the only place they ever felt successful. Maybe they didn't get a lot of attention as a child so a pat on the back from the boss means a lot more than it should. Doing a great job should be an extension of who I am, not my whole identity. Some people talk non stop at home about work. I'm not referring to the normal venting either. Maybe they even use the excuse that they just love their job that much. Fine, but that's not leaving work at work and it's not leaving much room for intimacy with others. Yea, that sounds deep but it's true. That's not keeping priorities straight.
Another gorgeous day here in the Philadelphia and surrounding area. It is 69 degrees and I'm loving it. I went for a walk this morning. I hope we get more of this weather in the weeks to come. Fingers crossed.
Posted by Liz at August 13, 2006 10:41 AM