Melissa Etheridge, fresh off of chemo treatments for breast cancer kicked ass at the Grammy's with her voice and her bald head. Dammit that's right girl claim that moment it's yours. She is a true rocker. I'm so sick of the "standard" definition for beauty. Life changes our appearence changes our bodies change. Why jam yourself into some mold if that's not where you are? It's dull and unimaginative. I say take what you have and let shine. Inspire those around you to do the same. Perfection isn't real. Authentic beauty, whether that's fat, thin, straight hair or curly is where it's at man.